My relationship with Anneke began simply enough. I saw a post on the LA discussion board that she was coming to town. I clicked on the link to her reviews. Tons of 9s and 10s for performance. A quick check of her do’s and don’ts. I big ‘do’ on everything I care about. Done deal. I e-mailed her. I never even looked at her bio or pictures. That’s how little I care about a woman’s looks. For me, it’s all about heart, soul, and sensuality. Performance reviews speak volumes about those things. A beautiful woman is largely just the big winner in the gene pool sweepstakes of life, and is often accompanied by a big dose of attituuuuuuda. Doesn’t impress me. Now, don’t get me wrong here. Anneke is a beautiful woman, but that’s not what drew me to her. I had no idea of how special this lady was to become. Anneke and I exchanged many e-mails prior to our date. What began as charming and enticing confidence on her part, and even a few warnings of how, uh, ‘energetic’ she was, turned to some even more charming self doubt and disclaimers as she read further into my resume of reviews. I found her so damn sweet and real. Her big heart seeped into every e-mail. The penned sexual jostling aside, I had no doubt she and I were going to create some magic together. Hang on guys. Those with weak hearts, I suggest you stop right here.