Guys, please take this review in context with all the other great reviews that Andira has gotten. Something didn't click here - could have been me. All I know is that I was somewhat forewarned by the other reviews so I have myself as much to blame.
When I first started emailing Andira (Didi), she was very responsive (in a quick text message sort of way) and that made me excited. We arranged for the night before Thanksgiving, which turned out to be very rainy. But examples of her responsiveness were: when I told her she was beautiful, she responded with a separate message saying Thanks for the compliment When I told her I'd have candles, she responded that that was sweet.
However, she decided to cancel only 15-20 minutes before our date, when clearly she should have been able to call me much sooner, as the weather had been bad all day. Getting ready for an event like this gets me all nervous and I'd prepared everything all nice in my apartment, including the candles, and I had already taken a Viagra. So being stood up was pretty annoying.
I then read some more of her reviews and realized that she was someone who I had decided NOT to call, becuase a number of reviews mention that she's probably too tight for anal and that she often doesn't want to. So I emailed her and asked her if she thought I should look elsewhere and her 2 word response was have lube. I wasn't sure if this was a cute way of saying that she was game and that she had lube or if it was a somewhat terse way of telling me I'd better have lube.
At any rate, we rescheduled for 11/24 and the whole tone of things seemed to change. We arranged for 6:30 and she emailed around 3:30 asking if we were meeting, almost as if she'd forgotten. Although it's hard to read through the lines in email, I'd just gotten the sense that it was not a good day for her. The more I think of it, the more I think that she just wasn't looking forward to anal.
I have to say, though, she did give it her best in that regard....