I am a complete and utter novice when it comes to providers and hobbyists. And this is an accounting of my first lessons from just the right one. I emailed her after reading several very positive reviews here on TER, making sure to *be respectful,* and she replied about three hours later. (hint: the good providers have LOTS of email to sift through. This isn’t about instant gratification. Have patience, but be persistent.) She was very sweet in her reply and suggested I give her a call to talk.
I did just that. I didn’t get through right away. Voicemail. I left a short message for her to call me and that I’d also try back later. Again, I’m a novice. I don’t know a lot of the protocols for hobbyists, but common courtesy seems to trump most things. (hint #2: LEAVE a voicemail; it shows you’re serious about booking and lets her have more insight into who you are. Also, good providers get LOTS of calls in addition to emails, so they have to be frugal. A call with no message is a good way NOT to stand out to her.)
I called again later on and she picked up. I stammered a lot, being nervous, but even in the phone call, she did not rush me into an appointment or try to push me in any way. I explained that I was new to this and she was very patient and pleasant. She put me at ease with some small talk, almost the way a girl interested in you at a party might do. We spent a decent amount of talking without any rush, very much like her sessions promised to be. She told me that she was lucky that she would be my first provider, but that she hoped that I would feel the same way once I left our rendezvous.
After getting more comfortable and with conversation in a lull, she steered gently towards a time to meet up. I picked a time and date set for a couple days later and she was available without a problem. She also explained briefly how her donations could be offered. Ultimately, I was left feeling very positive about the whole experience to come, simply from the introductory phone call.
The day arrived. I got cleaned up after work and picked up a half-dozen roses as a gift. (check out her site for appropriate gifts if you want to give something) She had asked me to drive to a local store with a large parking lot near her house to get directions from. I waited for a bit, having arrived early after work. Called at our appointed time and got directions. I walked the short walk to her door. She let me in and the fun ensued with some hot surprises towards the end.
The juicy parts are strictly VIP below.
I didn’t even really know what provider and hobbyist meant in his context until this lovely goddess explained it to me. I was a hobbyist-virgin and she took my cherry. But for experienced or first-timers, I highly recommend her. Treat her like the smart sexy woman (apply courtesy and respect liberally) she is and she will take care of you like no one else can. She watches no clock and accepts every man as they are so long as they keep in mind that a provider is in fact a person behind the facade. Enjoy!