I read several reviews on ASPD, including one incredibly hot one posted by Fubar, and put Sylvia on my must see list. Played phone tag and exchanged emails with her for a few weeks, before actually arranging a firm date. (She did cancel the first appointment we made on short notice, and I wondered whether we'd ever work out a time. Then I heard that she'd had a medical problem that put her out of commission for a while. She actually emailed me a few times to remind me to get back in touch). The important points are that she is bright, fairly well organized, mature for her age, and reliable. She has a child and has to arrange her schedule around her child care responsibilities to some extent. The time arrived for our appointment and I arrived at her incall...