She says to call instead of text on her ad so I called her to see about setting something up for the next day. We worked out a time. She told me she had gained about 20lbs since the pictures in the ad and to her credit sent me a selfie after we hung up so I could see what she looked like now without me asking for it. She was definitely heavier. I almost canceled then but didn’t want to be a jerk so I kept the appointment. Next day, she texted a little before the time and asked if we could push it back 30 minutes. I agreed. When I got to the location she gave me and let her know I was there, she said she still wasn’t ready and could I give her another 10 minutes. Again, I should have just bailed. She finally gave me the room number. When I got to the room, she was all apologetic and trying to explain about some situation she was having to deal with. I needed to use the bathroom. It was an extended stay type of hotel but looked like she lived there. The place was a mess. There was an ash tray with cigarette butts in the bathroom and stuff all over the bathroom counter. She kept talking nervously and apologizing and saying, I need to shut up but kept talking. Finally she invited me to get comfortable and things moved on. I don’t know if I just caught her on a bad day or if this is normal. Most of her reviews are decent so this was not the experience I had hoped for or was expecting. Lesson learned. YMMV but proceed with caution.
